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Protecting Children      

We all want to protect our children from the people and things in the world that would harm them.  We must learn about the dangers, be alert to them, and educate our children to protect themselves.

Over 35,000 children are forcibly abducted each year!

Twenty-four percent of juvenile kidnappings are perpetrated by a stranger!

Abduction is a topic you must discuss with your children!  It's every parent's nightmare, and it occurs far too often.  Children are lured by predators who know what makes kids compliant.  They know how to win kids' confidence, how to make them think they're helping an adult or an animal in need.  Predators play on a child's desire for things, or use ruses to make kids think the predator is a "special" person.  

Here are some common lures used by child abductors:

bullet"My pet is missing!"
bullet"I got my little boy a new [toy] and his grandma got him the same one -- you can have the other one if you like."
bulletI'm a friend of your Mommy's [Daddy's] and s/he sent me to bring you home right away!"
bullet"Aren't you just the prettiest little girl [cutest little boy]?  Can I take your picture?"

All of these lures can be difficult for a child to resist!

What can you do?  Teach your children:

bulletAlways come and get you if a stranger approaches them to ask for help, or offers them a gift.
bulletAlways come and get you if a stranger says they know Mommy, Daddy, Grandma, Sis, or any family member.
bulletNever accept a ride from a stranger, or get too close to a stranger's car.
bulletNever let anyone take their photograph!

Above all, always tell Mommy and Daddy!  Children must trust and believe that they can tell their parents anything, and know they'll be loved, without fear of judgment or punishment.  You know it's true, but make sure they know it, too.

Our children are our most valuable asset, and sometimes we have as much to learn from them as they do from us.  Enjoy them, watch them -- and protect them!

Talk To Your Kids About Being Safe!

Let them know that it's okay to trust and follow their instincts. Teach them to leave any situation that doesn't seem right to them.

Show kids where the safe places to go are if they feel threatened while walking or bike riding. Walk the route with your child and point out safe places such as police and fire stations, hospitals, and homes of people you know.

Screen Would-Be Babysitters Thoroughly!

Be extra careful when choosing the persons you trust to keep your children safe. It's not always easy to find the right sitter.  Be choosy!